Ejaculation Techniques
Heating up with hungry kisses and loving caresses that promise mind-blowing bliss for both you and your wanting partner when all of a sudden you're beyond the point of no return, the dam bursts and it's over. You're spent and ready for sleep. Meanwhile , she's still waiting for more thrusts, more and more, and now thinking about getting a dildo she's read about. Does this sound familiar?
Don't be all that concerned, the average man thrusts maybe 50 times before ejaculation begins to happen and a women can last well over 10 minutes before it even begins to happen to her. Men and women simply have different speeds at which they reach the orgasmic experience. However there are ways to time this and close the distance for better sex!
Work it up! To close the distance in timings before ejaculation the use of fingers/tongue, lips and even sex toys comes into play very well as foreplay, did we say foreplay? Yes, foreplay is and has always been the best answer to equality in the bedroom.
A technique to improve ejaculation control
Work on your self-awareness by experimenting. Take masterbation to a different level by prolonging it with a more sensual approach. Notice how your penis moves through distinct changes before orgasm and ejaculation, these stages are what you really want to be aware of, they will help you control the experience more.
Four Stages of Erection:
1)Lengthening and filling
2)Swelling
3)Full erection
4)Rigid erection
A Rigid erection, a penis that's rock hard and hot, tells you that ejaculation is on its way. Using self awareness and self arousal tactics, along with the loving attention of your partner you can enjoy extensive periods of prolonged erections accompanied with the great sensations and erotic feelings that are part of this stage. When you feel yourself heating up and your penis becomes stiff as stone, you can slow things down by changing your breathing into a slow deep in and out, which helps you relax and control the soon to be immediate eruption into a full ejaculation. Practice makes perfect!
Using breathing methods for ejaculation control
Taking control of your breathing patterns helps you maintain focus on what your body is doing and will let you take charge of the pace during sex. Rapid breathing always excites the body and flow of blood, while slow deep breathing calms it into a more relaxed state, thereby extending the time to ejaculation. Paying attention to your breathing helps take your mind away from your genitals and if its in tune with your partner will bring you closer together in a more intimate encounter and don't forget that sound can also play on the erotic feelings as well.
Muscle Contraction Ejaculation Technique - PC Muscle (pubococcygeous)
Squeezing your pelvic muscles, near the scrotum, penis and anus as you come close to ejaculation is an easy way to exercise control and can be practiced outside of sex just before urination.
Perineum Pressure for Ejaculation Control
Placing pressure on the perineum (between your scrotum and your ass), helps to stop ejaculation since this spot is a path to the prostate gland. The prostate contracts and expands during orgasm which pumps the ejaculation fluid to the penis. Your partner can be of great help here.
Use the Testicles Tug to Control Ejaculation
When you get close to ejaculation your testicles draw closer to your body so pulling them gentely away and downwards from your body will help in slowing down the burst into an orgasm.
Using the Penis Tip Squeezing Ejaculation Technique
By Squeezing the glands just below the head of the penis you can prevent an ejaculation from happening but stimulation must temporarily stop till the buildup calms down and you can continue in your love making.
Body control Ejaculation Techniques
Using your body as a distraction and re-channeling of the energy built up into an eventual ejaculation is among the best practices for perfecting your control of the mighty eruption. There are many different techniques for ejaculation control in this category such as the ones used in Tantric Sex, and derivatives from Martial Arts. Yoga Practice improves your body control and this is where it comes into play to master your body and mind to increase maximum staying time during sex. Intimacy is well known to be increased through special breathing patterns and body control methods. Thoughts become things.
Breathing
Deep and slow when your excited and losing control, faster and harder when your warming up. Little can be said further here. Breathing changes blood flow and that changes the pace heading towards orgasms.
Varying Thrusts as an Ejaculation Technique
Quick shallow jabs into the vagina stimulate the most sensitive area while not over stimulating the penis, while following up with a full length deep thrust are both very erotic and satisfying for both, also they help the pace and you last longer! One deep to about nine shallow thrusts seem to work wonders here and the staying power is maximized in this ejaculation technique.
Exercise your PC Muscle
Lastly, exercise your PC Muscle to improve all of your ejaculation techniques. This muscle is the switch, so to speak, that unleases your payload! So with practice using perhaps as much as 20 contractions following by a heavy one, then followed by a period of relaxation, can help you create the mental control and awareness to harness control of your ejactions in the future. This method has been used by Porn Stars in very long hard(excuse the pun) sessions, and it works!
Finally. All of these techniques can basically be done either together or during masturbation, the only difference being where stimulation is coming from and where it is going. Enjoy and experiment.